I happen to have more then enough experience with men; it is nothing to be proud of, but you know what, I have learned from my experiences.
What have I seen?
I have seen a recurrent situation; men enter into relationships. The swoon and win the woman they want over; once that is complete they wrestle with the idea of commitment; if they feel they have found that one, the wrestling match does not take that long. Now, they are in committed relationships.
Or so we think!
Yes ladies! Majority of the men in this world will be dishonest with you; heck most people will be dishonest with you. When a woman discovers this in her relationship, the first thing she does is take it personally. I urge you not to. This has nothing to do with you; it has everything to do with biology and choice. I will never give anyone the scapegoat that they were “CREATED” that way. We all have a choice! Yes men you have a choice!
I want many of us women to start taking control of our emotions. We are the strength of a man. A man is greater when he has a strong woman behind him. I can think of countless examples: Barack and Michelle are leading recent examples. Nefertiti held strong behind her king, sometimes joining him in battle. As women, we hold a power…… Yet we give it away by becoming emotional when we discover something about our men that just might be hard grained into their D.N.A. Again, this does not give them an excuse to cheat or be dishonest, but it is a realisation that women have to come to.
This is how I hold my power! I let a man be a man! I let him go out into the streets and let him be exactly who he is. I am sure to have an open discussion with him about EXACTLY who I am, so that when he see’s my actions, he is not dismayed or surprised. Also, we need to embrace our men with love and adoration when they arrive home. Give them that good energy, and they will always come back. There are succubus in the world who will pretend to be giving your many good energy, but instead they are draining him. He comes home to you, and you drain him more with your out of control emotions and irrational thinking. It is safer for the man to go back into the world because then, it becomes his escape.
Be that woman. Greet him with a smile. Give him that good energy; but DO NOT SEND HIM BACK INTO THE WORLD. He will bring that ratchet energy home and then you will wonder why your relationship is not working. Bring your man peace… This is where you will gain your power.
